Out of the feeling of reading

What do you get from savoring a famous book? It's time to go back and write a review. Are you at a loss after reading it now? The following is my thoughts on breaking up. Welcome to reading. I hope you will like it.

1 during the holiday, my mother recommended me to read a book, Separation. I have many feelings.

Breaking is giving up what you don't need at home. The shed is an old thing that has been abandoned for many years. "Separation" is to get rid of the obsession of things, and life should be free.

After reading it, I thought I liked reading very much. When I go out with my mother and see my favorite new book, I always want my mother to buy it with joy. Some books bought at home that I don't like are left alone in the corner, and I will tell my mother after reading them. If you want to do things or buy books in the future, you must learn to adapt yourself to buy them. Books that are not suitable or needed should be obtained by other means.

Because I often buy books, and I am a nostalgic child, so as long as my books are kept by my mother from kindergarten to now, now I think that some books that are still intact after reading can be sold in the Bazaar supermarket in school, or they can be changed to books in the hands of other students, which broadens my horizons and reduces the burden on my parents. How nice!

In fact, in my mind, there are always some lingering distractions, such as: my mother asked me to do something I didn't want to do, signed me up for class without my consent, and bought me some clothes without asking if I liked it. Sometimes I have some unrealistic ideas and should clean them up. So that our life can move forward easily.

I got a good book "Break Free" yesterday, but I was too busy to read only five pages. Zhang Defen's recommendation sequence made me think, so I read slowly. Although I read less, I gained a lot. Let me share with you:

The recommended preface is called "If you want to be happy, let go of your obsession with happiness first". When I saw the title, my first thought was "The more I want, the harder it is to get. For example, A Peng especially wants to make money, but he can't always make it. " Buddhism mentions that people have seven sufferings, and they don't want to be one of them. Let go of the beginning of seeking truth from suffering first!

This topic also reminds me of a book I recently admired, Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. The first habit-initiative, the most effective way is to expand circle of influence. And the word "let go" should mean "attention circle" Only by paying attention can we have more time and energy to do things in circle of influence and have a chance to get it.

The preface says, "Stop thinking negatively." This reminds me of the importance of thinking, as Huang said in Lifelong Learning: Six Lessons after Harvard, "Thinking affects emotions. If you want to be the master of your emotions, you must change your way of thinking and let thinking determine the occurrence of emotions. " "Key Dialogue" also mentioned that "you created your own emotions and made yourself feel scared, angry and angry. Remember, the only thing that makes you emotional is yourself, and it will always be you. " Therefore, Peng concluded that breaking the negative thinking mode will break the bad mood, and freedom and happiness will naturally come! Author: A Peng

What impressed me the most was that I started reading "Separation" today, taking the present as the timeline. Whether something should be left depends on whether it is "needed, suitable and comfortable".

Some things are memories of the past. I have seen some people keep their paychecks from a long time ago; Some people keep tickets for travel and scenic spots; Someone keeps his girlfriend's hand knitting a sweater. Many people think that these things are emotional. Although they will hardly be turned out now, they feel that they can turn over these things in the sun and recall those good times when they are old.

Some things may be used in the future. I have seen some people buy countless pieces of paper, which can't be put into the bathroom and piled up under the bed; Some people put plastic bags to buy food in the cupboard, even if they don't match the trash can, they are reluctant to throw them away; Some people keep clothes that they haven't worn for years, and they always think they can wear them next year. They need their own things to be in an adequate state forever.

In fact, there is absolutely no need to take the past and the future as the timeline.

Really good memories are always in your heart, and you don't need any external reminders at all, because you have never forgotten them. The best time is now.

It is a sign of insecurity to think that something will be useful in the future and refuse to throw it away. Instead of worrying about the future all day, it is better to save energy and hone your skills. We should make ourselves better and better and be a rational optimist.

Don't indulge in the past, don't worry about the future, and always carefully screen consumption. The criterion for judging is whether you are "needed, suitable and comfortable" now.

Reflections on Escape Reading 4 "Escape from Home" was written by Eiko Yamashita of Japan. This is a book that can be turned over in less than two hours, but it is enough to change your life. When you are confused about whether an item needs to be thrown away, it's time for an internal self-analysis. "Disengagement" is the process of meeting a new self.

I think most people will vomit in their hearts when sorting out housework: there are too many things! Cleaning up is too tiring! But aren't these many things accumulated bit by bit? I don't want to throw it away, but I'm too lazy to tidy it up. Sometimes I grit my teeth and put them in order. The next time I tidy up, I find a bunch of inexplicable things. The original things have been dusty and moldy somewhere. In the long run, I feel that the space is getting smaller and smaller until you are overwhelmed.

Things are like this, and so are people's hearts. They often fall into depressed experiences, feelings of failure and lost time. On the one hand, they make themselves miserable, which may not only ignore the scenery in our present life, but also lose more important things. On the other hand, they make people around them suffer, and their negative emotions slowly push people who love us away from us.

Breaking up is a life arrangement concept put forward by Japanese chores management consultant Eiko Yamashita. The so-called breakup is a kind of action technology to get to know yourself by sorting things out, sort out your inner chaos and make your life comfortable. In other words, it is to clean up the inner garbage by cleaning up the clutter at home and make life happy. Among them, breaking = cutting unnecessary things, giving up = abandoning redundant waste, leaving = leaving attachment to things.

Cut off "off" material desires, "give up" waste, get rid of "separation" obsession, and be a strong spiritual person!

Reading can let us experience the life of the characters in the book, and each story makes me feel different and grow up differently. Reading can improve one's self-cultivation experience and accomplishment, broaden one's horizons and increase one's knowledge.

The book that impressed me the most recently is Separation. I was particularly impressed by a sentence in the book, "When you know nothing, you know nothing in life. If people want to give up, they can do whatever they want, and all they can see are memories. " All I think about is the past. Only by letting go of obsession can we return to peace. "Once you put it down, you will feel relaxed. In life, we are making choices all the time. Only by letting go can we go further.

Many troubles in life are caused by much ado about nothing. I think the fundamental reason is that we can't give up what we should give up. Tao Yuanming wrote in his farewell speech that "people are tired of things, and the heart is a form of service." It means that people are burdened by material interests, their thoughts are driven by life, fame and fortune, and their bodies are enslaved. Disengagement means subtracting one's life and mentality, and realizing "changing the invisible world" by "throwing away the visible things". The simpler the lifestyle, the better. If you learn to give up, life will be much happier.

Just like myself, I must be flustered when I see the mess in my dormitory. On the contrary, whenever I clean, I feel very comfortable and happy. I used to like hoarding things. I hoarded a lot of things, but it was meaningless and took up space. Later, I threw away everything I thought was useless, and I felt much more relaxed. Therefore, sorting things out is equivalent to sorting out your own heart, having a heart that can be abandoned at any time, and getting closer to freedom.

Learn to break up and learn to live a simple life.

After reading 6, the feeling of breaking up is different from some contents. Breaking up some unnecessary purchases and not adding unnecessary things; Giving up means leaving only the necessary items; Separation is to improve the quality of life, recognize yourself and be happy. Never let you save some unnecessary expenses, and let the saved money buy some more quality necessities; Shed can make room for your storage, not only can you find things to improve efficiency, but also can make your residence more tidy and comfortable, and have a certain sense of breathing. As the saying goes, running water does not rot, and households do not rot. Everything that develops in this world can only be realized by constant self-renewal and iteration. We should go in and out, update in time, and make us better and better.

Separation is a field divided into three levels:

First, the comfort of goods and space;

Second, in life, I will improve my thinking and taste in purchasing goods. Things are limited, once in and out, no longer buy for the sake of buying. Will also enhance their image and status in the eyes of friends;

The third is the spiritual change. In the process of giving up, we can constantly know ourselves, know ourselves, improve ourselves, and even enhance our keen perception.

Through the understanding and practice of breaking up, we can finally live a more quality life and meet better.

After reading it, I feel that I can't do anything. I should stop. People who have no chance in life should give up, and their obsession should leave. I like this sentence in parting, which makes people suddenly realize. Although parting is told through the arrangement of objects, the protagonist of parting is not the object, but the self, and the time axis is always this moment.

For a person, it is a disaster to be too greedy and ask for too much, which makes his desire swell and often eats himself back. Give up greed, you won't be trapped by desire, you can see the brilliance in human nature and live happily, comfortably and comfortably. The inaccessible space is too congested, and we often lose our initial heart and forget why we live, which will make our life stagnate. The purpose of subtraction is to make life better. Just like the blank space in Chinese painting, the blank space is used as the carrier to render the beautiful artistic conception, which makes the composition and picture of the work more harmonious and exquisite. If the whole painting is full of countless strokes, it will lack beauty and interest.

If you give up, you will get it. I always want a lot of things, but I really need very little; Breaking up, from need to no need, to comfort. Whether you are harvesting or letting go, you should be honest with your heart. No matter how expensive and rare things are, talents who can judge according to their own needs are strong enough. There are many things in our work and life that we need to give up. The "sundries" we throw away are actually more like "redundant obsession" in the invisible world. We need to get rid of some of our stubbornness, reduce some unnecessary desires, unload the invisible burdens we give ourselves, and make our hearts simple and pure. ......

I've heard about this book for a long time, and finally got a chance to read it. It's really helpful to me. In this age of material expansion,

The ideas in the book are like a breeze, which helps me to put down a lot of persistence.

I always feel that I can make the best use of everything, but I can see everything as soon as I enter the mall, especially when my friends are shopping.

I feel sorry for not buying anything. When I went to Guam during the Spring Festival, my colleagues were buying bags, shoes and skin care products. Originally, I thought I didn't need to buy anything, but I bought a lot of unnecessary things. Now you have to bother me about who to give it to. What women often say is: Be kind to yourself. So I often listen and believe,

Then I bought a lot of useless things and put them in the cupboard. It's really harmful to be reluctant to throw it.

The book "Separation" not only talks about how to deal with the practical problems of life, but also raises it to a spiritual level. Tell readers how to apply this concept to deal with inner troubles.

How to find and clean up some rubbish in your heart and let positive energy enter? And we can see people's character and state from handling things.

Therefore, I am also trying to clean up unnecessary things at home. Free yourself from the control of material desires. Live a simple and comfortable life. The book also advocates accepting yourself and making a little progress every day, which is really a comfort to me, an impatient person. What's the harm of not doing it well? This is what I need.

As mentioned in the ninth book, many people pay attention to non-daily things. For example, some people will prepare tea sets and bedding for relatives who can't come once a year and friends who come to live occasionally. Some people put a lot of tableware in the cupboard specially prepared for guests, but their families use very few tableware.

I always think that parties should go to hotels or other places. Home is a private place, clean and comfortable. It should be a place you like and even long for. As long as you come back here, you can relax both physically and mentally. I am an otaku, I have few friends, and I don't like friends coming to my house. There is no need to spend money on things once a year, or even once every few years, and there is no need to put on a facade for vanity.

But I will keep the children's room and the necessary things.

After reading this passage, I have another experience:

Not only shopping, but also other aspects of life. There are many things we want to do, but human energy is limited. After returning to Apple, Jobs said: It is very important to decide what not to do. We should concentrate our limited energy on people and things that are important to us. If these two aspects are done well, our life will be greatly improved. If these two aspects are not done well, even if we do more trivial things and spend more energy, it is meaningless and just a waste of life.

After reading 10, the article is mainly divided into three ideas to get rid of unnecessary and useless desires; Abandon burdens and sundries; Stay away from negative emotions such as obsession.

The full text is expressed in the form of story cases, which belongs to a brisk rhythm. It is a method of sorting out the mind and life, which can make the messy life and mood return to purity.

The concept of "breaking" expresses the central idea that "too much is not necessarily useful", and it stops adding useless troubles and things to your life and mind.

The concept of "giving up" benefited me a lot. Many clothes that have not been worn for two years but are intact can be solved perfectly, and giving up the word is indispensable. Only by giving up bravely can we have a better present and future.

The concept of "separation" is about how to stay away from and avoid the obsession and distractions in your heart.

If you are afraid that you will lose your so-called wolf nature after reading this book, you can rest assured to study it.

Books don't make you think nothing, they just help you lighten the burden, help you run faster, help you live more freely and pursue further.

Without the promotion of Buddhism, this book will tell you that the so-called karma should be fertilized and watered wholeheartedly like planting trees, and never slack off. As for how much fruit can be harvested in the end, it is the real karma.

This book makes me understand that the best relationship with things is careful possession, cherish use and give up bravely.

If used in the state of mind, "parting" can make me more aware of what I want, not confused, not trapped in love, not afraid of the future, and not wanting to catch up with the past.

The feeling after watching the breakup is 1 1. Recently, it was found in the national map that "Jian Shu 70 broke up" is somewhat similar. I don't know what the relationship is! China's version of parting? ! I also opened my own company under Baidu-Duansheli Culture!

After reading this book, I feel a lot. Change yourself from life! Uncle Jian said to throw one thing every day, 20 clothes for the whole year, and not to buy new clothes for two years!

Simplify your life and improve your quality of life! Compared with their writing style, mine is too inferior! But in life, we really need to break up, not only in things, but also in feelings! Space separation, internal separation! Accept from the heart and fundamentally change!

I decided to throw one thing every day. After reading it yesterday, I cleaned up the cupboard and lost a few small things that have been useless for a long time! After that, I gave Uncle Jane a souvenir backstage, but I didn't expect to actually reply to me. I'm a little happy!

Uncle Jane talked about an idea, that is, to seal up unnecessary items. If you haven't used it for half a year, you don't need it. They can be thrown away and given away! Think about yourself. I put some clothes you don't wear in the box before, but I still don't throw them away. I still keep them every time! Seeing the parting, I have a feeling. I threw the sealed clothes directly into the love suitcase this morning. Maybe someone needs her more. Naughty is a kind of love. He doesn't know who I am or who will use him! But what I got after breaking up was happiness!

The first half of the year 20xx passed, and the former flag was just talk, but the second half came in a hurry. Farewell to the first half of the year is also a farewell.

I plan to throw away one item every day. Read two books in a month.

Thanks to Eiko Yamashita, thanks to Uncle Jane, cut off the past, give up the troubles of the past, stay away from the sadness of the past and start again!

12 after reading, the wife of Zhou, a famous Peking Opera artist, is a rich lady in Shanghai. She warned her children: "People should never be with the poor when they are poorest. Everyone is so poor. Who will help you? " Before the 1960s, she realized the social abnormality and tried her best to send five of her six children abroad.

Many people find her writing unpleasant and uncomfortable, but it is not rough, which proves that Qiu is a visionary. Why are the poor poor? Because their thinking is the thinking of the poor. Want to get rid of the status quo, the first thing to change is the way of thinking of the poor.

Check your home. Are there any good tableware that you have been reluctant to use and haven't even opened it? Look at your connections. Do you prefer to make friends with people who are weaker than you? Once you are with someone taller than you, do you feel stressed or uncomfortable?

I can't bear to use better things, because deep down, you feel that you don't deserve luxury goods and high-quality good things. It's hard to be with successful people because you don't think you deserve to make friends with such people. This is the thinking of the poor.

The world is snobbish. No one will really love you when you look down on yourself. The world is snobbish. When you firmly believe that you deserve something better, you will definitely have something better.

If people want to change, they must change themselves from the inside out. Let's start from breaking up and strive for better ourselves and something worthy of better.

The feeling of being out of reading 13 was written by Eiko Yamashita, a Japanese sundry management consultant. The so-called breakup is a behavioral technique to get to know yourself, sort out your inner chaos and make life more comfortable by packing things. In other words, cleaning up the garbage at home and cleaning up the garbage in your heart is a way to make life happy.

In short, breaking up is to move from the visible world to the invisible world by cleaning up the space of one's life. Therefore, the actions to be taken are:

Cut off = cut off unwanted things that want to enter your home.

Give up = give up the rubbish everywhere in the house.

Leave = get rid of the obsession with things and stay in a comfortable space.

The protagonist in parting is not the object, but himself, and the timeline is always now.

In the materialistic era, all kinds of goods, infinite greed, the home is full of sundries and unnecessary things. A pile of clothes, shoes and hats have been idle for many years, and even the newly bought clothes are hung on the shelves for display. The room is full of misplaced items. The bigger the house, the more sundries, the less space and the worse the mood. Because of the mess, I am too lazy to clean up, forming a vicious circle.

Let's take action, from increasing life to reducing life. Give up unnecessary uncomfortable things and don't buy cheap and unnecessary things at a discount. Green, environmental protection, simplicity and exquisiteness. Constantly clean up the garbage at home and inside, and live a comfortable and beautiful life.

Reading the book "Break Free" makes people feel a lot. It is not easy to break away in life. If we don't cling to material things and give up what seems to be a waste at present, we will think about what to do if we use it one day. Disconnect the unnecessary from the unsuitable, but human instinct is to want what I like. As for whether it is suitable for your current needs, it is rarely considered, such as snapping up. Therefore, in practice, it is also a painful thing to break away from traditional thinking, which often needs external force to promote.

In essence, the promotion of breaking up is also an external force, educating people to change themselves and awakening people's initiative. Especially in the environmental improvement of new countryside, the performance is more prominent. In rural areas, firewood is littered, and free-range chicken, duck and goose droppings, such as bricks and stones, are everywhere inside and outside the courtyard. It is difficult to expect farmers to take the initiative to do a good job, so the government's publicity and education, investment and efforts have all been forced to transform, so that rural construction will be brand-new and develop into urbanization.

The same is true of our express delivery industry. The headquarters of Xuzhou ZTO Express Line emphasizes that the facade of the contracted area should be well done, in strict accordance with government requirements, and the environment should be well done, orderly and safe. , and held many meetings to carry out publicity and education, in order to enhance the initiative of the contracting areas. The government will investigate, and if it fails to meet the requirements, it will be fined or even banned. Our headquarters of Xuzhou ZTO Express also actively cooperated with the government to inspect and urge the contracted area to split up and build a good facade, and reward the contracted area for construction.

Therefore, external forces combined with our initiative will be separated, improve our facade, improve our working environment, deal with interpersonal relationships, etc., and work easily and happily to further expand and strengthen our cause in ZTO Express.

The feeling of being out of reading is 15. It is about 65438+ 10 this year, and it has already been seen. At that time, I had simply tidied up the room, discarded some things and tidied up the room.

However, when I read this book again this time, I have to admit that some reference books and some concepts need to be reviewed all the time in order to achieve the unity of knowledge and practice.

The previous generation may have experienced the pain of material shortage, so they have a strong desire to hoard. And our generation, in an era of considerable material wealth, unconsciously bought a lot of items and piled them up at home. So the house is getting more and more crowded, and the storage space is never enough.

Although I also want to tidy up things at home slowly, on the one hand, I never ask myself to leave, on the other hand, I always quarrel with my parents when I throw things. Sell a refrigerator, 50 yuan. Dad thinks it's too cheap to sell and it can still be used! Completely ignoring how ugly this refrigerator pestle is at the entrance of the living room. You need to talk about selling computers. It's a working computer. It's not cost-effective to sell more than three or four thousand at first.

What's more, we should stop the cheap little things brought by our mother, such as an extra cup and a pair of chopsticks. Buy a table that can be used, but it is extremely uncomfortable. I sold a lot secretly and threw away a lot, but my home was still a mess.

Now watch "Separation" and review it again. Tell yourself all the time that we buy things just to make things useful and convenient for ourselves. However, the fact is that we have become slaves of things. Things cost money and occupy my living space, but they are not used by us. They also let us have something to sort out and standardize its position.

Maybe I can't make a good plan for my parents. At least my room must be separated slowly. If I am free tomorrow, I will start with the wardrobe and bookcase.