The poster of Jiangxi Jiujiang Bank's "bride price loan" was circulated on the Internet. What about the bride price loan?

Posters of Jiangxi Jiujiang Bank's bride price loan have been circulated on the Internet, which has also attracted the attention and heated discussion of many netizens.

Some netizens think that the bride price loan can really solve the temporary emergency, and some people who can't get married for the sake of bride price can finally have the confidence to marry their beloved woman in front of their mother-in-law.

Some netizens think that the bride price loan is nothing more than self-deception. Not only can it not solve the temporary emergency, but it will increase many family conflicts and bear heavier debts after marriage.

Some netizens stand from different angles. They believe that the bride price itself is a remnant of feudal society. How much money you have, how much you spend, and you should do what you can when you get married. There is really no need to ask for a bride price for face.

First of all, I think the bride price loan is really an act of self-deception.

Two people get married in order to get married and live a better life. However, the bride price and dowry were originally prepared by both parents for the sake of a better life for the new couple and to alleviate the economic and mental pressure of the new couple.

In another sense, the bride price loan has increased the economic pressure and mental pressure of the young couple. They not only have to bear car loans and mortgages, but also bear a debt. When the woman marries her daughter to the man's house, she not only has to accompany her to pay all kinds of loans, but also bears the bride price debt. This is really an act of self-deception.

Secondly, I think the bride price should be done according to one's ability, and there can be no behavior of asking for the bride price at a sky-high price.

Many families hope that the man's family can give a lot of bride price for the sake of so-called face. But each family's ability and financial commitment are limited, so we really don't need to force each other to give bride price.

No matter how much bride price is given before marriage, how to live a good life after marriage is the most important thing. It is better to find a man with similar views and similar interests, and two people can walk hand in hand through spring, summer, autumn and winter.

In addition, I think this kind of loan, whether it is really for bride price or part of it, should be banned.

Some people say that the bride price loan is a disguised consumer loan, and some people say that the bride price loan is an urgent bride price. In either case, I think this kind of loan is self-deception and should be banned.