Why is my view of love influenced by my family background?

Being born in a family will affect a person's attitude towards the object of love and his love life.

Psychologists put forward two concepts, Oedipus complex and Oedipus complex, which refer to the emotional dependence of individuals on their mothers in the process of mate selection. Personally, I think that the personality characteristics of the object of love will affect his/her impression and attitude towards the opposite sex in the future, and even affect his/her choice of emotional relationship. Honey, an American psychologist, believes that the concept of love is formed from childhood, which greatly affects the emotional experience of an individual's life. She called it "the theory of early mate selection". Psychologists believe that human feelings and behaviors are controlled by genes related to "security" in the brain.

The sense of security is closely related to people's attitude towards their partners, things in life and emotional development. The stronger the sense of security, the stronger the individual's tendency towards love and marriage, and the easier it is to form a view of love.