What is the common sense of female social etiquette

Women's social etiquette common sense one

1, sincerity. Sincerity is the basis for people to get along with each other, and it is also an important principle in social etiquette.

2, respect. Everyone wants others to respect themselves, first you have to respect others. The old saying: respect for people, people always respect. Respect each other to honor each other, the relationship between people can be harmonious and pleasant, will not produce strife.

3, sympathy. Around us, not everyone is always in the good times, there are many people have suffered such and such misfortunes, some for the money, some suffer from illness, some marriage failure, some career setbacks, some failed exams, some jobless when your friend suffered such a situation, you should sincerely care about the pain of the friend, with sympathy to comfort him, share his sorrows and pain, and try to You should be sincere in your concern for your friend's suffering. In this way, your friend will not only be grateful to you, but your mutual friendship will also be strengthened as a result.

4, care. A person who doesn't care about others will never have real friends and friendship. Some people think: he does not care about me, why should I care about him? If this kind of people can change their attitude, take the initiative to care about the people around, then the people around will certainly return the favor and turn to care about you. A psychologist once said: people who refuse to care about others, they will feel lonely. Most of the losers among the ancient and modern human beings are this kind of people.

Women's Social Etiquette Common Sense II

First of all, it is important to recognize the characteristics and advantages of women. In today's society on the social stage, has emerged more and more impressive public relations Miss, public relations sister-in-law. With their rich connotation, polite and elegant demeanor in social occasions to win the respect of others, to obtain the sincere friendship and help of others, to achieve their own high value of life. Science and reality have proved to people that women have unique advantages and infinite charm in socializing. They have delicate and soft feelings, and are more likely to experience guilt and put themselves in other people's shoes. This makes women in the social not easy to hurt other people's feelings or damage other people's decency, and therefore also easy to get each other's goodwill and trust; their language expression is gentle, euphemistic, easy to accept; they feel sensitive, which makes them in the interpersonal relationship is more good at coordinating liaison, preventing and preventing the smallest step. Therefore, as a woman, should be based on their own advantages, master the art of socializing, free, happy to engage in the social stage.

Secondly, to overcome the first time in the social timidity and inferiority complex. Everything is difficult at the beginning, and so is socializing. A lot of women who are involved in social occasions for the first time will feel a great deal of psychological pressure. They do not dare to take the initiative to talk to people, but also do not know how to talk to people, they are often isolated on the side, so that the valuable opportunity to meet with friends lost. This is very regrettable.

Generally speaking, the following principles are extremely useful for friends who are new to social occasions:

1) Equal socializing. First of all, to participate in socializing are friends from all directions, which must be a lot of each other do not know, so there is no need to be timid. And at this time full of confidence, natural and generous people, will often be looked at differently. Even if you are too nervous and lead to the wrong speech, it does not matter, you can say: I am the first time to socialize, do not know how to speak, I'm sorry! Then you can say, "I'm sorry I can't talk because I'm new to socializing," and then smile honestly, which will not make the other person laugh at you, but rather they will take the initiative to comfort you, and you can even make friends with them instead. In any case, you can't run away because of shyness, because then it will make those friends who have only heard half of your words puzzled, and even think that you are a childish and ridiculous person.

(2) Choose appropriately. It is important to choose the right target for socializing, you can first estimate a closer to your ideal partner through the person's look, dress, grooming and action, and then look at each other, or take the initiative to run over to the other side to indicate that you intend to make friends with them. If the other party is also interested in getting to know you, they will also take the initiative to come, your chances of success will be much greater. The first time to participate in the socialization of people, it is best to choose the first friends of the same sex to make friends, when you are more comfortable, and then go with the opposite sex to get acquainted.

(3) Say the first word. The first sentence of the social occasion is crucial, because a good topic can lead to a series of stories, and can quickly cause the other party to recognize you. The best choice depends on the target, such as a compliment on the other person's dress grooming. Talking about children with a middle-aged woman, studying, work, etc. with a young friend. A heartfelt praise and a suitable topic will often shorten the distance between you at once, but also to leave a good impression of your relationship.

(4) pay attention to manners and etiquette. The first time with people, should be polite, but not too much. Unsuitable for too much polite, do not distinguish between the object of the Western-style Chinese etiquette, will make the other side of the resentment. Neither arrogance, nor need to be coy, we must strive to achieve appropriate behavior, courteous.

(5) pay attention to consolidate the results. After the conversation, if you have a desire to further socialize with each other, it should be introduced to each other a general situation. Can say: we keep in touch in the future, okay? Then take the initiative to introduce yourself first. In this way, the other party will also be very happy to accept, it is important that from now on you have to keep in mind each other's names. A psychology professor in the United States that: when the other party told his name, you may wish to repeat verbally, one can help you remember, the other will make the other party feel respected.

Women's social etiquette common sense three

Human society is made up of men and women **** with the composition of the real-life women, are inevitably often have to deal with the other half of the human male. However, we often come across so some people, a mention of interaction with the opposite sex, associated with love and sex, as if this is a big taboo, this idea is actually a reflection of the feudal concept of male and female insemination is not clear, is not correct. We can often see this kind of situation, in the clear color by the male composition of the office, if once a day to a female colleague, then the original disordered environment immediately become orderly, the original men do not pay attention to the dress become clean, work efficiency has increased a lot, which can not be said to be the effect of the opposite sex in the role. Women and the opposite sex interaction, the important thing should not worry about whether it will produce love and sex, but should master the degree of external performance and inner feelings.

To grasp the emotional floodgates, this is the most crucial. In terms of outward appearance, when you interact with the opposite sex, you should be enthusiastic and sincere, but not too hot and overheated; not only to self-esteem and self-love, to maintain female reserve, but not cold, noble; not only to deliberately reveal the beauty and talent, but also not to be ostentatious, clowning around. If you just want to get friendship, you can not be hot to people, but like a blacksmith, fire and water, hot and cold, in order to forge a friendship; if you want to persuade others to adopt your proposal, you have to show strength, to gain the trust of the opposite sex, rather than just rely on the petulant posture; if you want to get the help of the opposite sex, you should let them fully understand you and sympathize with you, and at the same time should be soft in the hard so that So that you will not be manipulated by people who take advantage of their weaknesses. Therefore, whether you can correctly grasp the degree of interaction with the opposite sex, which is the sign of your social maturity.

Married women and the opposite sex friends of the interaction, should pay attention to the following points: First of all, self-cleaning, discreet friends. Do not interact with the opposite sex of bad behavior, so as not to lead the wolf into the house. Don't be frivolous, vain, play with other people's feelings or take pride in causing the opposite sex to fall in love. Do not be intoxicated by the sweet words of others in the praise, do not covet material interests; secondly, warm and generous, behavior. Should be swept away the shyness of the girl, shyness, with a steady, generous demeanor for the community. Neither twisting and turning, posturing, and not too casual, excessive intimacy, open some jokes without measure. Otherwise, you do not plant flowers, the other party is mistaken that you have a willow, thus inviting embarrassing trouble; third, pay attention to the distinction between friendship and love. To be good at driving their own feelings, can not trust the horse by the reins, the development of indulgent feelings, otherwise they will be caught in a dilemma, difficult to extricate themselves from the situation. Fourth, with the opposite sex to pay attention to the time and place. The same thing, in different times and different places, the effect and the impact is different, such as day and night, under the public and the deserted mountains and wilderness, single door, solitary place and so on. In the interaction of time and place do not pay attention to, even if the behavior is justified, but also inevitably attracted criticism, make it difficult to defend. Fifth, to be good at their own friends of the opposite sex introduced to their husbands, so that he became your *** with the friends, do not go behind the back of their husbands with the opposite sex, lest the loss of love due to friendship.

In short, married women and friends of the opposite sex to socialize, should adhere to such a basic principle: that is, to the limit of ordinary friends, pay attention to not affect the family. At the beginning of the relationship must let each other know that they are married. There should be no pandering or even provocative words and deeds in the relationship, and no casual talk to each other about the conflicts between husband and wife in the family, so as to avoid the opposite sex's misunderstanding and misinterpretation of their own. The opposite sex should be made known to the husband in order to avoid misunderstandings.

Women's social etiquette common sense four

In daily life, in addition to interacting with the opposite sex, but also often have to interact with the same sex. The same sex socialization also has the need to pay special attention to the place.

Generally speaking, physiological characteristics determine that women are more meticulous in their observations and more sensitive to social phenomena. This is originally a female advantage, but due to the influence of traditional culture, many women are accustomed to using the old consciousness to examine their own sisters and compatriots, sometimes more critical, like to compare with each other, very easy to produce jealousy, and so on.

When we socialize with the same sex, we should pay attention to, first of all, think more about themselves are also women, whether they also have common weaknesses. Such as: like to pick on others, but do not pay attention to their own demeanor; in the event of shirking their responsibilities, but also competitive; they are catty about everything, but said that other people are careful, and so on. Secondly, we should try to avoid women's socialization when they can not find meaningful topics, on the East, West, short of the parents to discuss. Many of the crises in women's society are caused by gossip being passed around.

All in all, to be kind to others and to take peace as the most precious is the general rule of modern civilized women's social life. By mastering this general rule, we can make the interpersonal relationship around us more harmonious, better life, and more successful career.