Traditional culture's understanding of love? Help me solve it.

After eliminating the feudal dross in traditional culture, the understanding of love can be summarized as eight words: mutual care and mutual respect.

These eight words are instructive to contemporary love. First of all, caring for each other is the guarantee of long-term love. Modern people often pay too much attention to personal feelings in love, with strong individualism and lack of understanding, support and trust for each other. Secondly, customer-oriented is an important form of love preservation. The two sides respect each other and keep a proper distance, which just meets the needs of modern people for personal space. Distance produces beauty. In addition to sensuality and feelings, love actually includes an understanding of beauty.