Why can't parents inflict domestic violence on their children?

1. Impact on physical development Domestic violence and occasional spanking of children are completely different concepts.

If a child is too naughty and a parent gives him a light spanking, that is not domestic violence.

Real domestic violence has caused direct harm to the child's body and resulted in life-threatening behavior.

Some parents have extremely bad tempers and spank their children without seriousness at all. They can hit their children with anything they pick up, such as using an iron rod to hit their children. The children are still so young and are growing. If they hit their children with a stick, they may break their bones.

Of course it will affect the child's physical development.

2. Lack of self-confidence. Many children who often suffer domestic violence have low self-esteem.

Other people's children are the apples of their parents' eyes, and receive immense love from their parents. They are very confident, but if they don't get the love of their families and are often beaten, they will lack self-confidence.

There will also be problems getting along with other children. They don't know how to get along with others, and they don't dare to get along with others.

3. Imitating violent behavior If a child is often subjected to domestic violence, he will have the awareness that violence can solve all problems.

No matter what is done, it can be solved with violence.

When he encounters a problem, he may not be able to think, nor can he control his emotions, so he will talk to others and use violence to solve all problems.

I remember a piece of news a while ago: a student who was often bullied cruelly threw the classmate who bullied him from the fourth floor... No matter who was right or wrong, this bullied child was often beaten by his parents at home.

Being bullied at school, I could only swallow my anger until one day I completely exploded, which resulted in tragedy.

4. Insecure Children who are often spanked are insecure. They don’t know when they will be spanked again. They always stay vigilant and look at their parents’ faces before doing anything.

Such children will be very timid and fearful when entering society because they have no sense of security.

Children who are often spanked when they are young are more likely to develop depression.

Because of the experience of being beaten, the child has a psychological shadow that may stay with him throughout his life.

Such children do not dare to resist domestic violence, nor do they dare to communicate with others. They feel that they are not worthy of care, and may even close themselves off.

5. The harm caused by verbal violence. Many parents think that hitting their children is domestic violence, and scolding their children is not domestic violence. This view is wrong, and scolding their children is also domestic violence.

Every child will make mistakes, and it is good if they can correct them. There is no need to scold the child blindly.

Parents must develop the habit of speaking well. After all, children are imitating you every day. If one day you find that your child is full of swear words, don't blame the child, review yourself.

In the early hours of the morning, my mother had something to say: Children will all make mistakes, and parents should choose a rational way to solve problems. Do not choose domestic violence to solve problems, because domestic violence cannot solve the problem and cannot educate the children.

If the domestic violence is serious, it may violate the law and that is child abuse.

Domestic violence has a huge impact on children. Children should be given more guidance and should not choose violent methods.

I hope parents can realize these problems as soon as possible and prevent our children from suffering domestic violence again.