Inherit family traditions and family precepts.

China is a country of etiquette with a cultural heritage of 5,000 years. And "unwritten" is also a major feature of China's training and has become an organic part of daily behavior norms. Take the essence and discard the dross. Some essences of family precepts have been integrated into the new moral construction, and many familiar family precepts have become family precepts, forming a family style. The following is "Thoughts on Inheriting Family Style and Family Training" compiled by me for you. I hope it will help you.

After reading Family Instructions (1), I talked about "attaching importance to family, family education and family style" and emphasized that "the future and destiny of the family are closely linked with the future and destiny of the country and the nation". By watching the public welfare short film "Family Style Inheritance", I felt a lot.

Home is the smallest country, there are thousands of countries. The "home" of family style is the "home" of the family and the "home" of the country. Family is the safe haven of life and the basic cell of society. The progress of family civilization is related to the improvement of the whole social civilization. Since ancient times, "home and everything prosper" has been deeply rooted in the cultural tradition of the Chinese nation.

The traditional society in China attaches great importance to family style. The stories of "Meng Mu's Three Movements", "Mother-in-law's Tattoo" and "Drawing a Godchild" are widely circulated, and Yan Jiaxun, Zhu Zi's Family Training, Wen Gong's Family Training and Yuan are highly respected. If the family style is correct, the people will be honest; The family style is positive and the political style is clear; If the family style is correct, the party style will be over. The long-term stability of the country and the civilized progress of the society depend to a great extent on the ideological and moral level of all citizens. Excellent family style and family instructions guide people to consciously fulfill their legal obligations, social responsibilities and family responsibilities, create labor glory, create a good social atmosphere, and cultivate a good fashion of knowing honor and disgrace, stressing righteousness, making contributions and promoting harmony.

"There is a party in the heart, a people in the heart, a responsibility in the heart, and a warning in the heart", which can best be reflected in family education. Family harmony and social stability; Good family education brings hope for the future; Pure family style, pure social style. No matter how the times change, no matter how the economy and society develop, the life support of the family is irreplaceable, the social function of the family is irreplaceable, and the civilized role of the family is irreplaceable. We must attach importance to family, family education and family style.

As a party member, in my future work and life, I will always keep in mind the requirements of the "three stresses" in family construction, set a good benchmark, consciously follow the eight-character family rules of "respecting learning, respecting faith, filial piety and keeping promise", constantly strengthen my sense of self-restraint, and earnestly be self-respecting, self-reflective, self-vigilant and self-motivated, so as to ensure that my life style and personal conduct always meet the requirements of party discipline, state law and family construction norms.

Inheriting family traditions and family precepts (2) Chinese civilization is splendid and profound. In the course of five thousand years' historical development, a hundred schools of thought, culture and traditional virtues, represented by Confucianism, have been nurtured. As a modern inheritance of Chinese traditional virtues, family style should actively occupy people's ideology with the essence of traditional culture, consciously resist the erosion of westernization and vulgar culture, and inherit family style well in carrying forward traditional culture.

A good family style is "harmony" "Harmony" is a very important concept in China's philosophy, which has been interpreted from "the use of rites and harmony is precious" in The Analects of Confucius, to China's concept of "harmony" in the movable type printing performance at the opening ceremony of the Beijing Olympic Games, and then to the theme of the Spring Festival Evening in the Year of the Sheep, "home and everything". Family style, as the inheritance of family culture, should first achieve harmony among family members, mutual trust, humility, understanding and support, and live in harmony, so that the family can become a harmonious and happy harbor; Secondly, we should have family and social harmony. Family is the cell of society. If the "family style" of each family is harmonious, the social atmosphere will naturally improve and it will be "harmonious" accordingly.

Good family style focuses on "virtue". "Virtue" is a cognitive word, which originated in the period of Oracle Bone Inscriptions, meaning correct behavior and "others". The "ritual and music civilization" developed in the Western Zhou Dynasty takes "morality" as the core, covering loyalty, filial piety, benevolence, righteousness, softness, respect, modesty, sincerity and benevolence. The book of changes says that "the terrain is vast, and a gentleman carries things with morality" still affects everyone. Family style, as the moral standards and values of family members, affects the attitude and style of dealing with people. Parents or elders who lead the family style should put morality first, educate people and have both ability and political integrity, so that "morality" can be a ruler and balance to measure the family style, and family members can make correct judgments with moral standards when facing right and wrong, good and evil, beauty and ugliness. Secondly, we should integrate the 16-character socialist core values into the family style and give it new connotation of the times.

A good family style is stricter than "rules". There are laws and family rules in China, and "rules" means "rules". Without rules, Fiona Fang cannot be established. Family style is the behavior norm or habit of family members. Disciple's Rules is a mature family rule and tutor system which has been widely concerned and disputed in recent years. Although it seems dogmatic now, it is still worth learning from the details of behavior and daily habits to cultivate teenagers to quit bad habits, be polite and obey the rules. There are rules, understanding the rules is the premise, and the key is to abide by the rules, which is strictness. Elders should take the lead in implementation, set an example, and influence their families with their own actions, such as spring breeze, rain and silence, so that family rules can be internalized.

Integrating traditional culture into family tradition inheritance and carrying forward traditional culture with family tradition inheritance not only enriches the connotation of family tradition, but also expands the carrier way of carrying forward traditional culture, so that traditional culture and good family tradition can inspire, shape and edify people together and build a new social trend of harmony and civilization for realizing the "Chinese dream" of the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation.

Inheriting family traditions and family precepts (3) The Chinese nation is a state of etiquette. Today, the 5,000-year-old culture has been deeply engraved in the hearts of China people. As the saying goes, there is no Fiona Fang without rules. From the mother-in-law's tattoo to the family rules and regulations of the Xihuating, all of them reflect the hope and encouragement of ancestors to future generations, and also reflect the simple family style and regulations of the Chinese nation.

Every family in China has its own family precepts, rules or customs, and my family is no exception. When we were young, our parents asked us to take the initiative to say hello when we saw our elders. Respect each other; My father once told our brother that taking advantage is the "back door" to lose money, not greed that never occupies one's own things; Do your own thing; There is no entertainment time until the homework is finished; Do what you do on the same day, don't procrastinate; Diligence and thrift, the rice in the bowl must be finished and so on. A talented family must have a good family style, and a bad family style will inevitably lead to family misfortune. In order to keep the family clean, Meng Mu chose three neighbors and broke the machine, creating a good environment for children's growth, which made Mencius, an idle and enterprising person, study hard and become a famous great thinker in the history of China. Zeng Guofan, ranked third, is strict with his children, does not allow him to be superior to others, advocates frugality and housekeeping, and makes all his children useful talents for the country.

Good family style and rules are as indispensable to family members as soil, sunshine and rain. So, how can we establish a good family style and rules? Of course, different people have different opinions. I think the most important thing to establish a good family style and rules is to have a harmonious family relationship. The important foundation of good family style and rules is unity, equality, tolerance and harmonious family relations. Secondly, I insist on family rules. Although most family rules are not explicitly recorded and required, it is very important to teach by example the traditional virtues. My parents' words and deeds are the basis for carrying forward my family style.

Family rules are not invented, but created by the life and behavior of each member of the family. If the behavior of the head of the family is not standardized, it will not help to study the family style and rules carefully. Only proper family rules can create a good working, living and growing environment for all family members, and good family rules will be the eternal wealth of the family and society.

Inheriting family traditions and family precepts (4) Reading this book originated from an accidental opportunity. On April 8, I saw this book in the village Committee, which was refreshing, so I borrowed it and read it after work five days later. It's still fast. It seems that "books must be borrowed and unreadable" is still reasonable.

After reading it, I was deeply touched. It can be said that most of the stories of 40 characters in the book are familiar and have a certain influence in history. Their family style and family instruction stories also have strong practical significance today. From this, we can understand the importance of family style and family precepts. The family style and instructions of these historical celebrities are related to the rise and fall of families, and some even relate to the rise and fall of the whole nation. Many of them have become part of the Chinese national spirit.

This is the family motto of historical celebrities. As an ordinary person, a harmonious and prosperous family is also inseparable from good family style and family training. To form a good family style and family instruction, we can learn a lot of meaningful things from the family style and family instruction of these historical celebrities. This book introduces the family style and family instructions of historical celebrities through 10 stories from four aspects: "being a man, being an official, studying and dealing with the world". The results are thought-provoking, and many stories of family style and family precepts can be said to be shocking!

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It begins with Yan Zhitui: A Plain Family Instruction. As a member of Yan's family, although I have seen the family instructions for Yan twice, I still have a little knowledge. Through this easy-to-understand story of family precepts of historical celebrities, I understand that the essence of Yan family precepts is to achieve the purpose of self-cultivation and family harmony with plain family precepts, and it is the unshirkable responsibility of Yan family members to learn and inherit Yan family precepts.

The book "The Way of Being a Man" also lists the family style and family training stories of historical celebrities such as Sima Qian, Su Xun, Wang Xiang, Tao Yuanming, Li Hongzhang, Liu Bei, Fang Xiaoru, Gao Panlong and Yang Jisheng. We ordinary people are also inspired by their family style and family training stories. As an ordinary person, I want to achieve Wang Xiang's five virtues: honesty, modesty, filial piety, unity and generosity, which means Gao Panlong: be a good person, Yang Jisheng: one should aspire to be a gentleman. In short, as a person, we should keep the moral bottom line.

The way to be an official

Being an official and being an official are inseparable and complement each other. There are many lessons in history about being an official and being an official. There are 10 stories in the book, which tell the importance of family style and family instruction to officials from different angles. Duke of Zhou, Sima Guang, Fan Zhongyan, Li Shimin, Bao Zheng, Yang Zhen, Cao Cao, Zeng Guofan, Peng Yulin and Zheng Banqiao have resounding names, which have proved their family style with practical actions. From the family style and family instructions of these celebrities, let us understand that being an official should keep the bottom line of law and discipline.

The way to learn.

The method of learning, from Confucius, a teacher with the same background, to the left, is that learning should not be for fame. *** 10 story, the similarity of * * * lies in being eager to learn. Naturally, it goes without saying that Confucianism has influenced generations of Chinese sons and daughters, and now it has gone abroad to influence the world. In addition to Confucius, there are nine celebrities, including Han Yu, Ouyang Xiu, Wang Shouren, Yan Fu and other great scholars, as well as emperors and ministers such as Liu Bang, Kangxi, Zhuge Liang, Hu Linyi and Zuo. These literary giants, scholars, emperors, and famous officials all inherited learning as a family tradition. As ordinary people, what reason do we have not to study or not to study? Learning is the only way to understand, and understanding is the only way to know right and wrong. The most important way to cultivate one's self-cultivation is to study. In today's society, "studious" should become the family style of every family, and promote the formation of the study style of the whole society through the family style of "studious".

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10 stories, 10 experiences, 10 inspiration. Ji Yun, Bai Juyi, Lu You, Liang Shang, Lin Zexu, Liu Xiang and Zhu's family style and family training stories have given the world too many inspirations and lessons. From them, we deeply feel that living method is fundamental. As ordinary people, in the real society, we should be cautious in words and deeds, consistent in words and deeds, consistent in appearance, modest and prudent in getting along with others, and tolerant and understanding.

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After reading this book, we can get the following enlightenment: First, the formation of good family style and family precepts is not overnight, and it needs unremitting efforts and inheritance of several generations. Second, the inheritance of good family style and family precepts must be consistent with words and deeds, and the example is greater than words and deeds. Third, learning and understanding are passed down by the family for a long time. A good family style and family instruction can not be separated from a good style of study. Cultivating a good family style and family training needs to start with a good style of study. Fourthly, cultivating self-cultivation, strengthening self-cultivation and building a harmonious family are the most basic requirements for the formation and inheritance of good family style and family precepts.

Inheriting family style and family precepts (5) My family style is "filial piety", respecting parents and teachers. My parents always tell me: all virtues are filial first! Family style is a motto that should be kept in mind. With it, we can gain a foothold in society and go further! Keep in mind the family style, consolidate the foundation of life, take firm steps and become a pillar of the country!

Family style can also represent the ethos of a country. The country is inhabited by the people, and this style is more important. Relying on the people's hard work, law-abiding, mutual assistance and mutual assistance, a country's prosperity is not just material wealth. In my opinion, what is more important is its atmosphere. The ethos of a country and a dynasty determines its decline and victory. Only a country with a good social atmosphere can make the country rich and powerful, and can it really be called a powerful country.

One night, I went to my classmate's house to play. My mother and I agreed to go home at 7: 30, and we should respect the rest time of other people's homes. My classmates and I are playing CS gun battles on the computer, and I have been thinking about making an appointment with my mother. It's five minutes before 7: 30. I quickly bid farewell to vestbo and rushed downstairs to go home. My mother gave me a big hug as soon as she opened the door and praised me for being punctual. This time my mother not only kissed me, but also rewarded me with playing computer for an hour next weekend. I'm so happy!

Children are the hope of the family, and the family is the cell of society. Parents have the obligation and responsibility to take good care of their families and educate their children. Although the responsibility of making children have noble qualities may not be entirely on parents, parents are duty-bound to establish a good family style and cultivate children with it while being "cows" and "horses". If children look like "Zuk" instead of "Edward" because of bad family style, it will not only make parents sad and disappointed, but also bring endless harm to society.

"Teach your children before class and your wife at the bedside" takes strict discipline as an important link in cultivating a good family style. Family gives people a sense of belonging and becomes the softest part of their hearts. Because of this, the family is easy to become a haven of human weakness, the principle is easy to be flexible in front of the family, and the bottom line is easy to break through in front of the family. Poor management of family members' children often leads to family misfortune. Party member cadres should consciously implement good work style in family life, often publicize policies and regulations to their families, help them draw a clear line between right and wrong, beauty and ugliness, honor and disgrace, go with the flow, abandon evil and be good; We must resolutely reject children's improper demands. At the same time, "teaching by example is more important than teaching by words", which requires children's family harmony, first of all, to be single-minded; To ask your family to be honest and upright, you must first stay away from vulgar tastes. Only in this way can the family become a family that pursues progress, a family that can stand the test of wind and waves, and a harmonious and happy family.

I hope that every household can form a good family style, so that family style can help us learn the truth of being a man and form a good atmosphere in society!

Inheriting the family style and family training (6) The feeling of home gives people warmth. It is the only place for people to stay and the shelter for people. However, a home should look like a home, and it should not be in a mess and have no rules. There is a good saying: Without rules, there would be no Fiona Fang.

If a family has no rules and only dotes and covers up, is this home? Home is a towering tree, a towering mountain, in case. He suddenly fell down and collapsed. Who caused this? It's us. Dad has no dignity, mom is all doting, and we have become arrogant and unreasonable people. When the towering tree of our family fell, the mountain collapsed. We regretted it and were annoyed, but it was too late.

I remember when the winter vacation approached the Spring Festival, a new word "family style" appeared on TV that I hadn't heard for a long time. The word was broadcast on the news broadcast. They sent reporters to ask random questions, "What is the family style? What is a tutor? " Pedestrians have different answers.

Family style, I think, is a behavior of family members, whether it is good or bad. I think the family style of my family is warm, frank and persistent, because every member of my family is very hospitable, never flinches when encountering difficulties and rarely reneges.

Family education, I think, is the quality of family members, whether deep or shallow. If family members don't study, they won't gain knowledge and learn civilization. Education is a particularly important point. Our parents taught us to be serious when we were young, and to correct our mistakes when we know them. Now the teacher teaches us to distinguish between black and white, to be serious and down-to-earth. In the future, it will be social education that we will persistently abide by the law. Every day, we are learning something, knowledge, civilization and truth.

Family precepts, I think, are lessons from family members, whether they are strict or loose. If we protect each other and hide everything, I think we will use killers. If everyone is honest and selfless, I think the rules are unnecessary. Family precepts must not be soft when they should be used, and must not be used when they should not be used, otherwise it would be a big mistake.

A home should have both order and warmth, and both are indispensable.

Inheriting family style and family precepts (7) Good family style and family precepts are family heirlooms. In some historical stories, we can also see the influence of family style on the behavior of future generations. The well-known story of "Liuchi Lane" in Zhang Ying, "A letter from a thousand miles is only separated by a wall. Why not let him be three feet?" This kind of mind and tolerance turned the olive branch into friendship, well resolved the disputes between neighbors, and spread it as a beautiful talk to later generations. And this kind of indifferent and honest family style has also been well passed down by future generations. Zhang, the son of Zhang Ying, was an official in three dynasties, honest and clean, and knowledgeable. He is a scholar recognized by historians, and Liuchi Lane is six feet wider in the eyes of his parents, which is "selfless at heart", so his selfless heart is boundless!

Although family style is a trivial matter, it is related to the rule of a big country. Home is the smallest country, there are thousands of countries. Family styles are connected to form folk customs, and the integration of folk customs promotes social atmosphere. If the family style is correct, the people will be honest; When the folk customs are pure, the social atmosphere is clear. Inheriting a good family style is a great moral and spiritual force for society. Carrying forward family style is indispensable for a harmonious and beautiful society. At present, cultivating and practicing socialist core values must also start from a family. In particular, we should attach importance to family education, highlight values and moral education, integrate socialist core values into the daily moral behavior of every family and citizen, and truly condense the most basic force to practice socialist core values.

A good family style is the spiritual wealth crystallized by ancestors through vicissitudes and wisdom. However, with the progress of the times, the inheritance content of family style should also keep pace with the times, supplement and extend it in time, and dance with the times. In particular, it is necessary to link up with the core values we advocate, extend to the theme of our times today, and add elements such as environmental protection, low-carbon life and ecological civilization construction to family education, so as to increase compliance and execution for these good advocates, and at the same time, let the beautiful family style gain new development space and be passed down for thousands of years.