Children always like to wriggle with their parents when they reach the rebellious period of youth. How to deal with it?

The rebellious period of youth is a process that everyone has experienced. As parents, they have their own 15 years old and 17 years old, so they don't always have to preach to their children as experienced people.

When a child enters adolescence, it indicates that the child will grow up, break away from the protection of his parents and spread his wings to fly to higher places. But at this time, it's just the child's idea. His behavior is not capable of this, but it is always good to have ideas. As parents, we should fully understand the children's desire to be masters of their own lives and respect their ideas. Maybe the child's idea is naive, or it's not good at all. But this is the first step for children to finish their lives by themselves. Parents should empathize with their children's thoughts, respect their psychology and communicate with them equally.

As parents, we should respect our children, their right to speak and their ideas. Nietzsche said, "I don't agree with your idea, but I will defend your right to speak to the death." Children's right to speak is a symbol for children to express themselves. Therefore, as parents, we should listen to children's thoughts patiently, try our best to understand children from their perspective, and give them the opportunity to make their own decisions.

I hope my children can treat all social occasions in the right way, so I should set an example for my children and make a good agreement.

Adolescent children are also very grumpy, sometimes more grumpy than their parents. You are fierce to me, and I am fiercer than you. So what should we do?

You should be kind to your children and let them feel your care and love. No matter how they take the exam, they will be treated equally. No matter what clothes children wear, they can appreciate them. But parents should set an example, such as studying at home and setting an example for their children. Agree not to brush your mobile phone at home, so that children can see what their parents do, instead of just listening to their parents preach.

How ridiculous it is that many parents always want their children to get ahead without realizing their ideals in life.

A child has his own ideas and ideals, and his life is not a continuation of his parents, but a brand-new life. Therefore, parents should not always say, "How did you get into any university?" Instead, you should communicate with your children what you like, what you want to learn and what kind of person you want to be in the future.

In fact, I don't think the child is rebellious, but the parents are too self-righteous and always feel that they are right. They are good for the child, but what does the child really need? Do parents know?

Children in the rebellious period of youth, so deal with it.

? Adolescent rebellion is a process that many children have to go through, but it has always been the distress of many parents. Obviously, they are all children brought up by themselves, and how much effort has been paid. In the end, the children are getting farther and farther away from themselves. Many parents miss their children talking about everything when they were young, but when they grow up, they have nothing to say, and sometimes they will fight against themselves. In fact, as long as parents correct their understanding and mentality in time, because this is the only way for children to grow up.

? If the child is rebellious, it is not necessarily a bad thing. First of all, rebellion means that children gradually mature and begin to have their own thinking, which is the performance of children's growth. If children have always been "obedient" good babies, they will not have their own opinions after entering the society and become passive Nuo Nuo. On the contrary, this rebellious child has personal thoughts, so rebellion is not necessarily a bad thing, which represents the maturity of the child.

? Secondly, treason is a way to vent bad emotions. This is related to the child's psychological development. When children enter adolescence, they will become sensitive and emotionally changeable in the face of various pressures. If the pressure is not released, it will be very bad for their mental health.

? If children have adolescent rebellion, it is not only a process of psychological development, but also a normal phenomenon, but it has a lot to do with family. Adolescence is a crisis of parent-child relationship. If it is not handled well, the parent-child relationship will go to extremes, and the child's psychology will become that imperfect person. Therefore, parents should also pay attention to their children's educational methods in the rebellious period. You can try the following methods!

First, kneel down to communicate with children and give them respect.

Influenced by traditional culture, many parents always talk to their children in a commanding tone and condescending attitude, thinking that you were born to me and should listen to me. Therefore, once a child goes against his will, he can't stand it. He thinks that children are always against themselves, and then they are either yelling or yelling at children. If he can't speak Japanese, he will be beaten. For sensitive children, this will only make them more disobedient, so when we really want to be angry, we can go to a quiet place to calm down, and we must say to ourselves: Don't be angry, don't be angry ... because we don't have any judgment ability in an angry situation. When we control our emotions, we squat down to communicate with our children. This is respect, a hundred times stronger than yelling at you!

Second, effective communication.

The success or failure of any communication does not happen in the process of communication, but is doomed before this communication. Many parents will become the "Tang Priest" in life after their children have rebelled. First, they will bomb for a lot of reasons, and then they will read the "tightening spell". If it really doesn't work, just like the girl's aunt in the case, they will solve the problem by force. Is it actually useful? It's useless. What you do will only make children more rebellious. So what is effective communication? It is also very simple, that is, to communicate with children on an equal footing and talk to them in a consultative tone.

Third, respect children and be patient.

? At the age of 3, the child's self-awareness began to sprout. He wants a sense of control. He hopes that everything can be done by himself and that he can be the master. All 3-year-olds have this awareness, let alone older children. Therefore, in the face of all children's behaviors and ideas, as parents, we must give our children the right to express their opinions, listen patiently, and then think. This is the real respect for them. However, few parents can do this. When children really show rebellious behavior, many parents will be scolded, yelled at or punched by their children within a few minutes. In fact, this is a taboo to communicate with children. What rebellious children can't stand most is the "authority" of their parents. The more you oppress him, the more you resist. Sometimes it seems that we won, but in fact we lost, and we lost completely. We have planted the seeds of rebellion in the hearts of children. Therefore, as parents, when children oppose us, they already have a rebellious tendency. We must be patient with him. The more rebellious the child is, the more we should communicate patiently, otherwise the child will be more rebellious.

? In the face of rebellious children, we must pay more patience and control our emotions, otherwise the result will be unimaginable!

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Hello, children always like to screw things with their parents when they reach the rebellious period of youth. First of all, we tell ourselves that this is an inevitable phenomenon that every child will experience, and then let ourselves be calm and rational, and analyze what the child does with you, not for people. If it doesn't matter, you don't have to catch it. Respect your child's choice!

At this time, you should learn to understand and tolerate children. When you let your children feel your inner love, they will show respect and restraint when facing you!

In short, when children reach the rebellious period of youth, they always like to be entangled with their parents. Parents should first make changes and rationally adjust the methods of disciplining their children, instead of handling contradictions emotionally!

The rebellious period of children's youth is a problem many parents will encounter. Parents should try to give their children enough companionship and care when they are young, and care about their psychology, health, learning and development. Be a witness, companion and guide during their growth. Every time, parents need to care about their children's mental health, chat with their children more, talk about the basic principles and norms of being a man, conduct appropriate sexual enlightenment and education, and help children avoid protecting themselves or hurting others. Parents and good children don't make stupid mistakes. When children are rebellious, it is time for parents to test themselves. At this time, parents should set a good example for their children, love their family, love learning, behave well and be positive. Communicate with children more and give them enough care. When children don't need too much care, they should keep a certain distance, don't interfere too much, and be better parents.

The child's rebellion shows that he has grown up. At least he went to elementary school or junior high school. The greatness here does not mean that he is old, but that his mind has grown up. It's normal, because he has his own opinions. It is completely different from parents' ideological stance and views on things. Not having good children is the rebellion of our large population. In this case. As parents, we don't have to worry. This is just a detail of a child's character in the process of growing up, seeking independence. We are in communication, as long as we recognize him. I'm afraid he's doing something wrong. I'll affirm his initiative first, and then enlighten and reason. In other words, the soft ones come first, stand on the same side as him, and the hard ones come later. By hard, we mean to be reasonable and practical. Then he will recognize you. He won't listen to your explanation if he objects at first. Actually, it's just a matter of communication. Rebellious people in the world don't mean bad children, but all good children are led in the right direction. Come on [Ross]

Parents don't panic! Please do the following. First, be good at listening. Adolescent children need their own space more. What a family member needs to do is to be good at listening to the child's inner world and listening to his inner words.

Second, don't nag, as the companion of adolescent children, don't nag, which will seriously affect children's emotions. If it is serious, it will lead to jumping off a building or excessive depression. At this stage, I need the silent company of my family.

Third, as long as it is not a major event, all educational methods and methods are endless for children. What we have to do at this time is to give the child confidence and believe that he can do well.

Based on the above three points, it can be concluded that the tacit understanding between family and children is patience. Absolutely uncultured! ! !

"Rebellious period" is almost every child's growth process. As a father, I have encountered such troubles. After children enter the "rebellious period", they often have language conflicts with their parents. Sometimes, children even show their inner protest against me in behavior, just like most parents are at a loss. I once asked a friend's child, a girl who usually looks smart. She said that in the "rebellious period", she is also prone to that kind of emotion against her parents, but she didn't or didn't dare to show it in language and behavior. Now that she is in college, she can't understand why in retrospect. In my opinion, we label the children's growth stage from innocence to maturity and independence as "rebellious period", expressing a kind of helplessness. At this time, we should no longer impose our ideas on our children, nor should we communicate with them by preaching. We should gradually treat children as a member of the family with independent thoughts and communicate on an equal footing. In this process, many parents do not adapt, and will gradually eliminate the so-called "rebellious period" symptoms from the second year of high school.

The superficial ways to solve this problem are: first, try to get into the child's mind, first understand his (her) attitude towards things or a problem, and what the principles are, and then try to think from the child's point of view. The second is to turn the role of parents into children's good friends, talk with children about topics or people and things that children care about or are interested in, treat children as friends, and don't always ask, command and scold children stiffly! Relieve the psychological discomfort between children and parents, and it will get better slowly! Rome wasn't built in a day, nor was it built in a day. You should calm down, be patient, work hard for a long time, and wait for bloom!

Children's "rebellious period of youth" is better to say that children have further self-awareness. When it comes to "rebellious period of youth", we usually always associate some bad behaviors of children, resulting in a series of bad associations and anxiety. I think as parents, we should first put our minds right, but your anxiety will affect our children. Children are constantly growing and discovering themselves. We should allow them to have unique opinions and opinions. We should treat them as adults on an equal footing with ourselves, communicate more, try to find out your's similar interests, and guide them subtly, instead of scolding them at every turn. My child is also at this time, I will find that she is more opinionated and less nagging than before, so I will quickly change roles and become her friends. She likes anime, so I'll go and have a look when I have time. She likes Osamu Dazai, so I will buy his books. When chatting with her, she will feel that she has something in common with you, and she will be willing to chat with you. Then when she is happy, I will tell her about the bad things she has done recently, and many problems will be solved slowly! Not every child will do anything out of line during the rebellious period. For them, it is just a process of moving towards a new realm. What we need to do is calm support and patient guidance!