Yang Jiang's wisdom of life one by one to be a calm and quiet elegant woman

As a woman, who does not want to be calm and quiet, do not fight, put down the obsessions of the heart, the ordinary day to live elegantly and calmly. However, in this flurry of red dust, how many people's hearts by the world polished increasingly rough and confused. Under the double pressure of work and life, the realm of elegance and ease is drifting away from us.

As a woman, are you physically and mentally exhausted and anxious because of your work and life? Do you envy those excellent women who are graceful and relaxed?

Compared with other women, do you always feel that life is unfair to you? The marriage is not as good as you would like, the work is heavy, and the life is hard...everything is not good, and you have to worry about it everywhere you look.

As a woman, do you want to get out of the mud and live a graceful and wonderful life? Then what way should you change to realize your dream?

Women want to live a kind of inside out from the grace, it has nothing to do with money, status, power, this is a kind of deep bone marrow of the inner cultivation, in the weekday life there is a natural flavor.

Today, I will take you to ****read the book "Yang Jiang: Calm and Easy is Elegant", and I hope you can find the answer from the book. This book is a delicate narrative of the virtuous, talented and elegant Yang Jiang, who remained optimistic and strong in the face of adversity and grew up in the midst of suffering, all of which could not be separated from the education and influence of her parents in her family of origin. We hope that by sharing the wonderful life of spiritual noble women, more women will experience their wisdom and charisma, so that they can get the strength to get out of the fog of the mind, and bravely go to write their own life chapters.

Author Liu Ying, author of poetry and culture, likes poetry and ancient literature, especially the Republic of China style, the text is beautiful, full of deep feelings. A number of works have been signed, will soon be on the shelves.

Well, after the introduction of the basic situation of the book and the author profile, the following I will tell you in detail about the content of the book.

Next, I will take you to understand a real Yang Jiang from three aspects:

The first aspect is, how is a graceful and calm woman made? (Chapters 1 and 4 in the book)

The second aspect is, how is a perfect marriage cultivated? (Chapters 2 and 3 in the book)

The third aspect is the optimism and transparency after the storm. (Chapters 5 and 6 in the book)

First, how is an elegant and graceful woman made?

Today we will share the first part of the content: elegant and calm woman is how to be made? There are three main aspects to explain.

These three aspects are: the influence of the original family on Yang Jiang; live to learn, be the best self; in the chaos of the world to practice calm and graceful. First of all, let's share the first part: the influence of family of origin on Yang Jiang.

I. The Influence of Family of Origin on Yang Jiang

Mr. Yang Jiang was born in a warm and bookish family in a small town in the south, with a strict father and a kind mother. When she was a child, her father got typhoid fever from eating choking shrimp, and the Chinese medicine practitioners were unable to do anything about it. This storm almost crushed Yang Jiang's family, and the atmosphere in the family was sentimental and sad. Because of her mother's persistence and not giving up, her father was finally snatched back from the hands of the grim reaper by a medicine prescribed by an excellent Chinese medicine practitioner.

Her mother saved her father's life with her own persistence and love, and this incident was y engraved in Yang Jiang's heart, and she learned: everyone has a pair of armor of love, which wraps around the person we guard with bravery and tenacity to love. As long as there is love, miracles can be created.

Yang Jiang's father is a person who knows a lot about education, and his influence on Yang Jiang is quite deep. When Yang Jiang was 8 and a half years old, she made the first decision on the road of her life - to go to Qiming Girls' School to study and start a brand new life. This clean and pure place gave her the most genuine, pure and lasting faith, and also cultivated her strong desire to learn and explore, which influenced her whole life.

Yang Jiang's father loved her y, but his love was not indulgent. The education and guidance he gave her on reading made Yang Jiang know how to cherish. The book placed on the table, if Yang Jiang did not read for a long time, that book would disappear. This kind of cherishing is rooted in her bones, so in reading, so in relationship, work, study, life and so on.

The education and influence of her parents have planted the seed of love of reading in her young mind, and the teaching of her parents have taught her how to cherish and persevere, how to love, and how to face up to difficulties, which has become the philosophy of Yang Jiang's life, and is also the valuable wealth of her life.

Many ordinary women do not have a favorable family of origin, enlightened parents, or superior abilities. As an ordinary person, you will slowly understand that life is not as good as things eight or nine, but frankly face, do yourself the most important.

No one can change the environment brought by the original family, but there are always some ways to change the feeling of life.

We can, through our own efforts, in the limited conditions, to create a party of their own spiritual world. Let the soul abundant, let life rich.

Second, live to learn old, do the best oneself

Yang Jiang was influenced by his father, and loved books as his life since childhood.

Reading books is one of Yang Jiang's major hobbies. Once Yang Yinhang asked her, "Ji, how are you doing if I don't let you read books for three days?" When Yang Jiang heard his father ask, he replied, "It's not good." When he heard his father's question, Yang Jiang replied, "It's not good." Yang Yinhang asked again, "What if I don't let you read books for a week?" He then asked, "A week without reading?" In Yang Jiang's opinion, the days of not reading are boring, and reading has become the unswerving faith of Yang Jiang's life.

Yang Jiang's habit of reading as a child became her life's work. Yang Jiang studied at Soochow University, Tsinghua University and Oxford University, and in addition to completing her courses, she spent most of her time in the library. She lived a minimalist life, but never skimped when it came to books.

Time is limited, and after their marriage, Mr. and Mrs. Yang Jiang spent so much time on reading that they naturally neglected on other things. The outside world has many misunderstandings about them, to which, Mr. and Mrs. Yang Jiang never argue, compared to that, they would rather spend the work of arguing on reading. One day without books, all things are wasted, using these eight words to describe Mr. and Mrs. Yang Jiang, it is very apt.

Living to be old, learning to be old, Yang Jiang made reading her career, and insisted on it all her life. The books that she has tried to read have long been integrated into her soul, shaped her character, and precipitated into wisdom and emotion, allowing her to speak with a clear voice and exhale like an orchid.

In real life, women are very easy to be in the eyes of the trivial grind away the passion of life, and to change themselves, we must read more.

Sansao said: "Read more, the face of the natural change." Not long ago, the host Dong Qing's temperament was on the hot search. On a CCTV program, Dong Qing wore a pink plaid blouse and held a book in her hand. During the program, Dong Qing, as always, was dignified, generous and sensible. "The belly has poetry and books," 45-year-old her, the reason why the temperament is so good, and her reading habits are inseparable.

The woman who loves to read, has been in the process of reading, has long shielded the majority of the ordinary people in the life of the trouble.

If you want to become an elegant woman, start reading.

Third, in the chaos of the world to practice calm and elegance

Yang Jiang all the success and her life love of reading is inseparable.

When Yang Jiang was born, China was in the midst of internal and external troubles, wars, shelling, and ten years of turmoil. Influenced by her father, Yang Yinhang, who was calm and relaxed, rigorous and wise, she was still able to be calm and relaxed even in the midst of the chaos, and encountered tribulations and setbacks.

The biggest official Yang Jiang did in his life was the principal of Zhenhua High School in Shanghai under the strong recommendation of Mr. Jiyu in the period of national turbulence. Yang Jiang, who has never been an official, has been a successful principal this time.

The war made the years turbulent, and many drama troupes came into being. Faced with a totally unfamiliar field, Yang Jiang worked very hard, and was not discouraged by the difficulties she encountered, and she did not give up lightly. Yang Jiang has become a classic in Chinese drama industry from "As You Like It" to "Make It True", which depicted the real world and recorded her own success, as well as her perseverance and undiscouragement behind her success.

Yang Jiang has devoted her life to academics. She spent most of her life translating Don Giovanni, which was published after 10 years of the Cultural Revolution and several setbacks, and is still recognized as the best translation of all time.

Only when you have a strong heart can you fly against the wind and live a wonderful life. This is the revelation that Yang Jiang's century-long life has given us, and at the same time, it also lets us read and understand the two most valuable words in the world, one is seriousness and the other is persistence. Conscientiousness and persistence is a process to make your mind strong.

When you are not doing well, in order to usher in the turnaround of life, you must make yourself strong inside, and a strong heart is the key to get out of the trough of life.

So how do we ordinary people get strong inside? The inner spiritual world is broad or not, determines the inner strong or not. Insist on more reading, more insight, more sense of life, more to improve their competitiveness. You're good, and you're naturally strong inside.

Speaking of which, today's content is almost chatting, let's briefly summarize today's content.

First of all, we talked about Yang Jiang's hundred years of life wisdom, inseparable from the words and teachings of parents. The good family culture, enlightened education style, and parents' words and teachings had a great influence on Yang Jiang's life, literary attainments, and strong personality.

Secondly, we talked about her love of reading and her perseverance and dedication behind her success. The book gives her rich knowledge, enrich her soul. Abundant reading has given her a persistent literary foundation. Her success all stems from her habit of loving to read.

Finally, we talked about how she honed and plumped up in the face of adversity and achieved the best of herself. During the war period, Yang Jiang wrote comedies, and during the Cultural Revolution, Yang Jiang set out to translate Don Quixote to publication after several twists and turns. Yang Jiang's success in the suffering and trials is related to her calm and relaxed attitude towards life after the ups and downs of life.

So, that's it for today's sharing. We've learned about Yang Jiang's growth as a model of an elegant woman, and I wonder if you've gained anything from listening to this lesson. Tomorrow we will talk about how Yang Jiang's perfect marriage was cultivated in three parts. And what kind of inspiration does her perfect marriage give us?

This is...we will continue to explain it to you tomorrow, see you tomorrow.