I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm going to be able to do it.

Wanzai's old tradition is this, the first meeting the man should give the woman "see money" now about 2K-10K ranging to the betrothal is also the vernacular "step wedding hall" when the woman's parents will be with the matchmaker to talk about how much how much the man should be given! "Gift" (i.e., commonly known as the bride price), now should be one or two million. If the woman's parents open, there are also not speak (I have not given).

You don't want to have the idea of "buying a wife", because the money you pay, the woman's parents will not spend it themselves. It's usually spent on your daughter's (i.e. your girlfriend's) dowry, and the more you give the better the dowry will be, and if there's one thing they get out of it - it's face!

So you don't have to worry about this, give more if you have money, and if you don't, be sincere and say that you don't have any money on hand right now, and that you'll come back to honor your lord when you do. This will make you feel better, and even if they do insist, it will only motivate you to work hard for two more years and save up more money so your daughter won't have to suffer. --I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm sure I'll be able to.