According to the marriage custom in Baoshan, Yunnan, my girlfriend and I are married on both sides. What should I pay attention to? What are the differences and precautions from ordinary marriage?

Marriage customs in Baoshan, Yunnan usually include the following steps and precautions:

1.** Matchmaker introduction * *: Both parents will invite the matchmaker to introduce their children to show their sincerity and consent.

2.** Delivery date * *: The man's family will choose an auspicious day, write down the man's family situation, wedding date and woman's family situation on red paper and send it to the woman's family.

3.** Wedding * *: On the wedding day, the groom will bring his relatives and friends to the woman's house to pick up the bride, and the woman will set some difficulties to test the groom, such as hiding the bride's shoes and asking questions.

4.** Go too far * *: When the bride and groom come back, they should go too far together to drive away evil spirits and ghosts.

5.** Worship the church * *: The bride and groom worship heaven and earth, worship the high hall, worship each other in front of the gods, and then entertain relatives and friends.

In Baoshan's marriage customs, there are some places to pay attention to:

1.** Red envelopes * *: The woman will set up many game levels, and the groom and the best man need to prepare enough red envelopes.

2.** Wedding Reception * *: You can't serve all the dishes at the wedding reception. You should keep a little, which means "more than one year".

3.** Newcomers toast * *: Newcomers should toast table by table, but don't drink directly. Pour some from the cup in front of them.

4.** Like candy and smoke * *: A packet of candy and a packet of smoke should be put on every banquet for guests to taste.

Generally speaking, the marriage customs in Baoshan not only respect traditional culture, but also adapt to modern life. You and your girlfriend can decide how to balance the two according to their own preferences and cultural background.