The first thing you need to do is to get married, and you'll be able to do that.

In the end to get married or not, a look at the custom of the region where we are newcomers is how, like in Sichuan and Chongqing area is almost do not want to bride price, even if you have to be very little of the kind, and some places may be on the number of bride price to pay attention to the number of bride price, while some places bride price is more required to reach what kind of amount of money threshold, specifically we look at the marriage to bride price or not, or more to go to according to the local situation to formulate.

Dowry money

Two, marriage dowry is for what

1, appropriate dowry, for marriage, play a certain ballast role, the two sides will not be easily divorced, the man is willing to invest a certain amount of money in the marriage, then it is more interested in the long-term gains: a family of three, life happiness. For the woman, there is also a sense of security.

2, the wedding bride price in most cases, in fact, more is used as a start-up funds for the future of the family, after all, a wedding cost less than tens of thousands of dollars, more than a few million and so on are there, like the family is not rich, the wedding bride price can be used to alleviate the need for a wedding after the life of the funds.

3, in addition, we have a point worth saying is that the country is concerned about the bride price and dowry with, so basically how much we give the bride price, the woman will be accompanied by almost the dowry accordingly, so in fact, more is the two sides of the family to pay are fair, the degree of entanglement is often not so much.

The bride price, we need to sit down and discuss the two sides of the family, always in real life, many couples ready to get married because the bride price is not happy, although the economy is the protection of marriage, but is not the reason you break up and do not love you, to treat the bride price a thing, but also need to communicate with both sides of us to be treated more. Because the bride price will fully reflect a sense of ceremony, however, this sense of ceremony will let each other produce more awe, but also easier for the two sides of the family have a depth of understanding, may be because of this problem, you find out a lot of things, find out things after the feeling that each other is not suitable for each other, did not formally enter into a marriage, but avoided a tragedy of the human race that should belong to their own. But for the question of the bride price should not be too serious, because sometimes also need to do what you can, because after all, for both sides to speak of this matter is particularly testing, because one may accidentally make each other red, and even bring some bad results, but no matter how, the bride price should be received, just receive more and less problems, the way to receive the bride price, in fact, after discussing with each other are agreed to be the best way! The bride price is the best way to collect the bride price. This is entirely a personal choice. It is not recommended that marriage is a high bride price, but less than 100,000 bride price and dowry can have, as the newlyweds life start-up funds to use. If the marriage abolish the bride price, at the same time abolish the dowry, then the marriage is not married, not married effect, then naturally after the marriage is each back to their own home each looking for their own mother, each pay back their own loans, then born of the baby naturally not necessarily with the father's surname! Also quite good, can always maintain the sweetness of love, men will not waste their parents' money because of the marriage, the fat does not flow outside the field! Some people say that the man which has a choice ah, the main a man to marry a Chinese woman almost no do not want to bride price. You men do not want to give the bride price people women will not marry, you have no choice, this kind of bad traditional customs may have to go through several generations to filter out. My father said that as long as you are good to me on the line, I have not thought about the bride price, so our family has never considered the bride price. But there are girls and I talk about this issue, I will be very serious reply that, that is certainly to be no less.